Uncanny

1. We are completely dependent on coitus (sexual intercourse) for our existence.  Without it, we become extinct.

2. For at least three millennia, the sentient race that is human, with its heightened awareness, has realized that there is more to coitus.  The selfish results that a witless animal accepts are not suitable for a sentient race. 

3.  Mutual coital satisfaction was not even conceivable when we first attained our sentient state.  The belief became embedded that there was nothing to be done.

4. The prehumans of long ago had no experience, knowledge, or insights regarding improving an act that had been based on the animal's instinctual reaction for hundreds of millions of years.  Premises 1, 2, & 3 confounded them.  It was so disturbing that they buried the whole issue.  That was a disaster.

5.     Because of coitus' crucial function, we cannot stop.  And, yet, our sentient awareness cannot let it rest.  The imbalanced, frustrating situation bent our brains like a pretzel.  It is a constant thorn in the side of our humanity.  Not only does it obscure the necessary clarity of a sentient existence, it also creates a painful subconscious awareness that the race is not yet worthy of its sentient state.

6. Being sentient and human is all about seeking clarity.    Purposely obscuring clarity, leaving a gaping hole in the Great Narrative, drives a sentient race mad.

We know that the human race is not just an animal.  We know we can do better than an animal.   

Unassisted loving coitus (shared ecstasy) needs to become an expectation, just as walking on two legs and talking are.  It's that easy, once we free ourselves from the gaping hole in the Great Narrative.   (see "Explanations")

7. Nature provided everything a human male needs to transform coitus into a consistently loving act.  A man can be master of his own body because he can think.

8.  We created the word love and the words to describe noble qualities, because our sentience sensed them, but never fulfilled them.  That is the same sentience that is always seeking clarity.  Nature provided all that was necessary to make them real and left it up to us to make it so.

9. Until coitus becomes a loving event, love will continue to corrode into lust, perversions, distrust, delusions, obsessions, aberrations, outright lies, madness, mass destruction, and self-destruction. 

It is not utopia that I describe.  It is only the lack of dystopia.  It is Human, not prehuman.  Yes, we will still have problems but they will be sane problem, not a fight between the two genders.

The biggest irony of all is how easy it is for a man to succeed.  The male gender has been so certain of failure that it has never even tried.

The phrase "we are only human" says it all.  It is the most offensive phrase ever created and, so far, we deserve it.  To state it accurately, though, would be to say "we are only prehuman" or, maybe even more appropriate, "woe is me".  I look forward to the day that we say, "Omigoodness, we are Human!"