I've just finished a conversation with a woman ( June 2023, not 2011). It's not like it really went anywhere but it did reveal more of the female gender's perspective on all of this and, maybe, gave me the explanation I was looking for, indirectly. As usual, it is a matter of putting into words.
The skulking behaviour of the male gender is more evidence that what is wrong is due to men's feelings of shame that they cannot love a woman the way she deserves, the way a human knows should be possible. The woman was more than content with cunnilingus, which is understandable, considering it is the most human option available today. The blindspot of the feminine gender is becoming more and more obvious. They certainly have no idea of the agony of causing the failure to love in the most natural manner possible.
Just think about it. For three millennia, there was not a mention of the fact that men were the only ones getting their rocks off regularly. Just in the last century, with a few individuals making their claim to fame by noting that men should be happy with three minutes, has it begun to become evident that this is true. Does this give you a clue?
Men have been hiding from their failure, bashing through life with a loud clamour in order to drown out the truth of their failure. The louder the realization of their failure, the louder the clamour they attempt to achieve in order to drown it out. Distract.
Note that following immediately upon the revelation that most men barely last three minutes (way low on the estimated percentage, by the way, until a woman decided to do her own survey, which finally put the failure in perspective at greater than 75%, my own estimate remains closer to 99%), was the proclamation by the same 'sex researchers' that there was nothing to be done about it. That men should be proud of lasting two or three minutes. Right. The answer of an animal.
That gives it all away.
I know I'm not explaining well but you have no idea just how exhausted I am due to spending a lifetime attempting to understand and a dozen years attempting to explain.
It is all just excuses of the animal. What it all boils down to, it seems, is that humans should be able to achieve loving coitus. The onus, obviously, is on the man. Anything else is just an excuse of the animal not accepting that it is far more than any animal.
Again, goodness help me, I will add that all of the many, many alternatives may have a place in world in which the human race finally realizes that it has the potential for loving coitus.
The more I look at it, loving coitus opens the door to our sentient state. Nothing else can get us there. What is missing is ... so much. Love, men's self-respect and confidence, women's fulfillment and equality, our humanity, balanced emotions and rational thought, love, clarity, and unity.
I've explained it every which way but loose. I really think the most precise and accessible version is Labyrinth. In fact, I think the opening paragraphs defines it all in the most concise, precise form. It doesn't explain really but it says it all. So, I think I'm done. I'll just have to see what exactly that means. I don't think it bodes well for me.
One more shot at making clear the alternative, as well. Look around. Do you really think we have improved over the millennia? Has anything we've done really worked to improve the human race? The human race. Not the toys we cook up or all of the other distractions we create. Give it another millennia to figure out that the physical manifestation of love is all important or do it now. We can slog on in our usual slow and laborious way and, maybe, we can get there. Or, take the leap. Now.
I can surely understand that most people have a difficult time understanding how important the physical act of love is to the mental state of the human race. They shouldn't, but the conditioning runs deep. No one is willing to talk about it. What I really can't get a handle on is whether anyone even accepts just how messed up we are in our current state. If they do, then, what? Are they so deep in the stupour that they just accept it? Ahhh, doesn't really matter, I guess. I am beyond tired. I've had enough.
It continues to mystify me that, when the problem haunting human life is pointed out (as I have done repeatedly for more than half a decade), so few (if any) can see it. I really believe I have run across a few women that accept the truth. But, what can they do? It's not up to women. It is up to men to resolve the situation. If I wasn't so friggen old, I could do more. I'm not. I can't.
Maybe the best evidence is that we don't want to talk about it or think about. For three millennia, we have been brainwashed into believing that, because animals can't do better, neither can humans. For three thousand years we have acted like there was no problem. It's such a ridiculous proposal it glares in the light.. The fact that coitus is mostly an awful experience for all and that it is not even highlighted anywhere makes it clear that it is a problem. If the fear wasn't so traumatic, we would talk about it. No one will even mention it. For three millennia, we have avoided the issue. Not a mention of it anywhere. Accepting the failure or substituting a pill is not an answer. The latter is a terrible misrepresentation of our humanity.
The evidence blazes when one considers the antics of men. How can one gender be such a thorough mess, while the other battles against the insanity? Not that the female gender is very successful at achieving humanity, of course, since they have to contend with the utter insanity brought about by the worst examples of the male gender. In the U.S., we even have a political party that represents their insane desire to avoid men's responsibility. How many of those awful men that rant their insanity across the world stage do you think even considers a woman's pleasure? I can almost guarantee you that not a one of the most offensive males has ever considered the woman's climax. Unless they take a pill to do it. It's sick.
Maybe there is one point that I should have stressed more. The paranoia so often seen in the male gender has one source. Each male, unless he has really achieved success, is paranoid due to his failure to some degree. Naw, I've gotten into that enough. The brain just shuts down when considering the one and only problem that really matters. The problem that shreds our humanity.
Incel and The Red Pill are perfect example of the problem. They whine about not being able to find a woman that is willing to let them have their pleasure. Then, find a lot of other miserable cretins that will rally to the cry (or whine). They call it INvoluntarily CELibate. The unstated is that they know damn well that there is nothing that the woman gets out of it. They are ashamed of their performance (because they know damn well they should be able to do better) and won't admit it. They are the epitome of the central problem surrounding our sick state of existence. For three thousand years we have acted like there was no problem. The most rational deal with the problem well, but it is still a problem. Why can't anyone see this??!?!?!?!
One last thing to try, again, for a very, very, very short while. Poetry. Yeah, I know. Why bother, right?
When do I become convinced that I will never puncture the stupour? It won't be long now.
I have to add this. I've been getting some traffic from India Google. That is so appropriate. As I have mentioned in so many books, India was the one place in the world, with the Kama Sutra, that attempted to succeed at loving coitus. There is a tremendous innocence in that and it ripples down through the ages. So, kudos, once again, to India. May you help me expand the base of love.
You know what I'm looking forward to most? The revelation of the woman. They are just such awe-inspiring feminism. Once it is freed ... wow!
I also think that we will be profoundly moved by just how much control we have over our bodies.
In the absence of a single other male standing up and shouting, "It works!", I have to consider the alternative. In all ways, it is ridiculously unlikely that I have some special quality, other than seeing the truth with laser eyes, that made it possible for me to succeed at loving coitus. More than that, the only real barrier is in the mind. I don't want to get into that or I'll start ranting, again.
But, still, I have to consider what happens if the world reads this and no improvement on loving coitus becomes common. In so many ways, it is still crucially important. As I mention a couple of sections back, the woman in her awesomeness should be revealed in full. Why? Because either men succeed and are, then, free to love with a will, or men are humbled and quit acting like such assholes.
Still, the context worries me. If men cannot find the wit and will to love, then we remain animals. That would just be too bad. Maybe the humbling of men would be enough but I doubt it.
And, in actuality, I don't doubt for a minute that, once we remove the paradigms of nonsense from our lives, that men will all be able to love wholeheartedly. We are HUMAN! We are not some dumb animals that can do no better than follow their stupid instincts, even though that is exactly how we have been acting for three millennia!