Men and love

 As I think about feminism and misogyny, I wonder if I didn't portray the situation poorly.  I cannot say I could have done it differently.  I was really furious about the swindle we have all accepted from our forefathers for so many millennia.  Maybe this is a better way to portray it, though, now that the edge is off the fury.  Oh, it's not gone.  Never will be.  

Men are not incapable of love.  It is just that they are handicapped from the time of puberty.  It may seem more extensive than that because it has been handed down from generation to generation but I am certain that the first generation that realizes it can love with the best of them will transform the world.

I think that's enough for now.  I have no idea, I might have more to say in the future on this subject and, if so, I'll put it right here.

Anything pouring out of me these days (and all to come, I expect) is coming out in poetry, and probably placed in the Avalanche collection on here.  The book is entirely different.

Liberation

     I hope this works to open humanity's eyes.  It's about all I have left.  (I know.  I keep saying that)

    I often wonder if no one gets the significance.

    This is the key point that I think most humans are missing.  It's not about the individual being human.  It is about the human race being human.  That is totally different matter.  

    You'll hear rants in some of the books about people willing to study their navel, like that will do any good.  Certainly, I can see women taking that route.  They cannot change men, so it's not a bad alternative.

    Any man that takes that route makes me furious.  But, then again, every man that has ever lived makes me furious for leaving the task of righting their ship to me.  !%!#$%!#$% idiots.

    That is what everything I have studied for a lifetime has been all about.  It's not about this guy's quirk or that guy's war.  It's been about understanding the underlying cause of all of the havoc that we endure.  What drives humanity crazy?

    We actually say it all the time.  There are quite a few phrases I could point to but I'll leave them for you to discover.  We know what it is and, yet, we are not willing to face up to it.  Do you see how that drives us off the rails?  We finally have gotten to the point that we refer to sex but even that is avoiding the real hotspot.  We still avoid what really drives us crazy.

    It's time to face up to it and do the only thing that will save us.   Men need to grow up and realize they have been acting like fools for millennia.  Their distractions from the real cause of our unwieldy existence  cause all of the havoc.

    You see?  This is how it works for me.  I stumble upon another question, seemingly inadvertently, that leads me on to the next important answer.

    Such as, as I was reading about the distractions comment above, another thought hit me.  How could a gender avoid making the act of love work, if they knew it was the act that would fulfill their loving need?

    To me, at least, that is such an important question.  It is because the ones that first sent us off course from a sentient, loving existence were not sentient, they couldn't pronounce the word 'love', and were in no way prepared for anything that resembles love.   In other words, inertia, disguised as something else. It is (some) women that have dragged the whole race, kicking and screaming, into the realization of love.

    Men can learn to love.  Just as I mentioned above, it's not about the individual.  The male gender needs to know it is so much more than an animal that it can love.  The rules of the animal no longer apply.

Then, we are truly free.  We are liberated from the animal.

    The only way that happens is if a few men whose egos are tough enough to dare to learn to love, prove the case, and tell the world about it.  All men can learn to love.  There will be no room for shyness as we prove we are human.  The result, our full humanity as Nature provided, is well worth it.

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