Pavlov's Dog
For three millennia, we have tried to train Pavlov's Dog to act like a Human. We need to become Human, not attempt to act Human. It is not a mental exercise. It is not an intellectual pursuit. It is a palpable change in the landscape of Humanity that is necessary. We remain prehuman for a single reason.
All of our issues; from the warlike stance that now threatens our very existence to domestic violence, InCel, misogyny, misanthropy, the battle of the sexes, and the negative reaction to any variance in sexual orientation; stem from the one instance in which we have not admitted the truth. Coitus, in its animal rendition, was found to be unsatisfactory for a sentient race at least three millennia ago. We have just never admitted to the realization for what were tentatively valid reasons for our distant ancestors. Not for today, not for our evolved awareness. Coitus is necessary, of course, but it remains unaligned with our Human potential for love and our heightened awareness until we bring the Human capability to the act.
We have never wanted to admit it, much less confront it, because we became convinced, until now, that there was nothing to be done about the situation; and coitus, of course, is central to the survival of the race.
What we have avoided realizing is that making coitus satisfactory for a human, sentient race is also central to our survival and progression into our sentient state.
This was a dilemma for early man, our ancient ancestors, for which they were unprepared. In their near-animal-witted attempt to deal with the quandary, they dealt with it like an animal. They made it go away, disappear from existence, as if it made the problem go away. The problem did not go away because we are sentient. It is not something that can be hidden under a rock. Even stuffed into the subconscious, it still lurks and makes its presence felt. It has remained buried in our subconscious behind a bizarre, twisted story that we created to hide from what clarity, a sentient premise, demanded. To put it in Oriental terms, we hid it behind a facade of 'saving face'. I will add that, in most ways, that was the best way in which to deal with the confusion of a newly sentient race.
Coitus can be a lot better than the enactment of animals.
That state of quandary created Pavlov's Dog, a sentient race that never fully embraced its sentience. It is crucial for a sentient race to seek clarity, which includes realizing that unassisted, human, loving coitus is the only version of the otherwise unsatisfactory sexual act that animals endure that a sentient race can accept without question or upheaval.
Unassisted loving coitus is something that must be accomplished by a sentient race. It is only the prehuman Pavlov's Dog that can do nothing about it, as it hides behind the dictates of its ancestors. Until we do something about it, we remain a demented animal.
The problem with Pavlov's Dog is that it has been trained to believe anything, as long as it comes from some figure that any particular individual considers an authority. This mad desire for authority to explain to one what to do maintains the demented rule of the animal.
The male gender set itself up as the authority (the greatest con of the ages) because they could not face the truth and the lie regarding coitus. The truth is that coitus is not up to the standards of a Human, sentient race. The lie is that there is nothing to be done about it.
This is the predicament that Pandora's Box attempted to avoid throwing in the face of prehumanity. It tried to warn us that hope remained in the box without disorienting the race by getting into the details that I now find crucial to explain.
I now finally realize this is why I cherish my anonymity. It is not a matter of who I am. It is only about loving coitus becoming understood. If I can ever become convinced that this is moving along on its own, I will become a ghost (figuratively) and my words will begin to become obsolete. It is only a matter of whether I have reached a point of clarity that can penetrate the stupour without effort on the part of the reader. It is all about unassisted loving coitus and nothing else. All else fans out from that starting point.
The only authority required by a Human race is the authority to be Human enough to run one's own life. I would expect that you have no idea, yet, just how scarce it is and, maybe, have no idea of that to which I refer. Each Human needs to start from a place of clarity and continue to seek further clarity. Each person will need to learn on their own to seek clarity after they learn to love until it becomes a Human standard that is learned from birth and replaces the training of Pavlov's Dog. Then, we can seek clarity unfettered.
Another way to put it, I guess, is that everyone must be their own authority. Anything less is only a herd of Pavlov's Dogs mimicking a Human.
Unassisted loving coitus completes the Human journey of sharing that animals only experience in small part.
Always, always, always keep in mind that coitus can become an unassisted loving act. I explain it, as best I have been able, in Explanations. I am sure there is a lot more to be understood but Explanations is complete enough to allow any man to succeed at loving. Alot of the improvement will come just from men realizing that any man can and must succeed, if they desire to engage in coitus and remain Human.
Goodness, do I get tired of trying to make my writing precise enough to explain and not impede. Penetrating the stupour is of a whole different order of difficulty.