Addendum
I keep trying to find some way to say it concisely, succinctly, and clearly. As I've said elsewhere, only a Human without all of the baggage would be able to understand in less than 300 characters. For Humans, it will be simple. Coitus can be a consistently loving event for a sentient race that thinks and can master its own body. In the meantime, let me try this.
Men have been selling themselves short since day one. They have been under-estimating and under-rating themselves. They cannot accept that coitus requires a Human finish to it. We aren't Human until humanity makes coitus Human.
Because of that unwelcome realization (that they have avoided admitting openly), they have developed an inferiority complex. Because of the inferiority complex, they take it out, especially, on women in the form of misogyny and worse. Even in mainstream society, the micro-aggressions, which are a form of misogyny, cannot be ignored. Men also take it out on the rest of humanity seeking the feeling of superiority to counter the underlying feelings of un-deservedness. It is a chip on their shoulder that they could easily brush off, if they would only raise their heads and take a hard look. Coitus has been waiting for a sentient race to make it something more.
Men have never gained their own self-respect. They have never learned to respect themselves. Women came with their self-respect in tact from day one. Women's self-respect only suffers from men's desire to recover what they have never allowed themselves to gain, their own self-respect. They try to blame it on women. But, they know better. That is what InCel is all about. Men attempting to justify their failure, like a cornered, insane animal. They are sentient, also, so somewhere deep in their minds, they realize the problem, whether they like it or not, whether they are yet willing to admit it or not.
I just hope this wraps it up in a nice neat bow for you.
Extrapolation
I am afraid that, for all that I've written about it, no one is yet extrapolating the real situation.
The derangement due to the unfinished state of coitus affects everything. The derangement of the race, the battle of the genders, is the dystopia. Most of all, it affects every act of the male gender to some extent. In many cases, it affects it to a great, disastrous extent.
I don't want to get into details because, if you can't figure them out for yourself, you will never believe it. The only further suggestion I can offer is that a lot of the monstrous behaviour happening today has a long history that reaches back three millennia. It won't change overnight but it will change rapidly, once we gain that which makes men's sentience free of the animal, free to respect itself.
Recap
This whole beginning piece, I guess, is my attempt at a recap. I am attempting to take the most salient points on specific topics that might still seem questionable to you and wrap them up in a nice little package. This particular topic attempts to answer what changes when we become Human rather than some foolish animal with too much brains? In general terms, I like the poem "Tone" myself. At first, it will just feel like a more harmonic tone. The abrasive notes will be slowly disappear.
The most germane points regarding becoming truly Human are the missing 90% of the brain becoming available; 100% of the brain being less distracted; 100% of the roadblocks to thinking eliminated; emotional maturity and self-respect remaining in tact for a lifetime for the vast majority of Humanity; nothing to detract from the noble qualities becoming fulfilled; relationships that maintain the potential to last a lifetime; love like we have never experienced it before - both in relationships as well as the general case. To sum it up, clarity. Do I really need to add that it won't happen overnight? We have a lot of bad, messy baggage to be shed.
The big three are self-respect, clarity, and love.
Evolving document
This site is, now, much more like an evolving document than a timeline-based blog. The dates have never meant anything. If you are waiting for the next new entry to appear at the top of the list, you will be disappointed. You may, on occasion, see one added much nearer the end.
Timelines don't work when attempting to provide a coherent explanation to the madness that has existed for three millennia. Quite the reverse, actually. It is a learning process. You don't start at the end. Thus, no timeline is most appropriate. Explaining something that has never been explored, much less understood and, worse yet, completely misunderstood, is a delicate exercise.
This site is the story of what drove (pre)humanity mad for the last three millennia. I have attempted to present it in a fashion that can penetrate the stupour. It is not stream of consciousness. If you want that, if you want the raw thoughts (to some extent) as they come out of my head, you will need to find the links to the phantom sites. It will take some serious study of this site to find the first link.
I have become satisfied enough with this site as an introduction to the madness that prevents the human race from attaining its sentient state and how to make the change. The more detailed panorama is now slowly evolving in this post and, maybe, a few others. Mostly, I don't expect to add much to ASP as I feel there is more than enough here to introduce you to your sentience and the vast gap that remains.
The big picture is absolutely clear to me on this site and, I think, written in such a way that anyone seeking surcease of the madness will be able to make their way through. The rest, like this, is just finishing touches. There may not be many more. The only question remaining is whether anyone is seeking surcease from the madness other than me.
My biggest struggle has been penetrating the stupour that is built on feelings of guilt, shame, and betrayal. All of which are remnants of the stupour of the animal that we were. The transition to comprehending our potential has taken three millennia.
Mostly, nowadays, it is mostly just in-post tweaks. Right now, most of those have to do with Explanations. I have been remiss in explaining, as clearly as I would like, how men get themselves out of the mess they made of human life because I have been concentrating on explaining how the human race, inertia, and Nature got us all into this mess. I am still not convinced anyone gets it.
There's enough in Explanations already. It just sounds kinda torturous and I hope it doesn't put any men off. It's just complicated to understand. Not to execute. A generation from now, it should be fully comprehended by any male before he hits puberty. Then, we really begin to change, as men comprehend that succeeding at making Loving Coitus is natural - for a sentient race. Success will become easier as we gain confidence. Accepted success breeds simpler success. It will become easier as men realize they can succeed.
Change
I was just remembering making the claim on a site about fifteen years ago that I was writing a book that would change the world. Of course, there were a lot of smart-ass remarks.
That's the thing. We have been so trained to not expect anything more than a worthless pack of hyenas from prehumanity that we reject the idea of changing the world as a knee-jerk reaction. It stunned me when I began to realize that, for all the amazing speculation in speculative fiction, none of it ever describes a human race that is any better than today.
Surprise! For me, also. These insights, that began with my first book, Sentience, will change the world. Sooner or later. Whether it's these words or someone's words later, it will change. It has to change or we remain the same stupoured, mad race.
The main topic on my mind today is how do I get through to you to make this happen now?
It is all up to men. If a woman wants to participate, it is best done by influencing individual men to learn how to love. Men that they can trust not to go bonkers. I would expect they are few and far between.
Of course, I would love to see more links to this site promoted.
Openness
How does humanity finally open up about all of this? How does humanity confront its past failure?
We still need to face the situation as a race. We should never have been hiding from it. Everything, everything points to me being right about success. We are human. Our skillset is so far beyond the animal that it is inconceivable that we cannot succeed at making coitus a loving event! Also, I, and others, have proven it is possible.
Basically, I believe we now need to get there in a hurry. We are wrecking the planet due to the strutting fools that have never faced and admitted their own failure and mask their madness.
It's really enough to make me furious. The avoidance of the subject has to be at an end. Men are already ashamed by their mad antics, so there's no change by exposing the source of their madness. It just exposes the source of their madness.
How do we become completely open about the subject of coitus, our precarious situation concerning our mad state, and embracing our sentient state of awareness?
Clarity in all things, beginning with coitus. We should no longer hide from it.
This whole openness thing is going to be a bit tricky, I finally realize, though I guess I've known it all along. I just couldn't articulate it. No one is going to want to go through the isolation that I had to endure in order to clear their own heads. The only way that doesn't happen is openness.
That is what all of this documentation is meant to prevent. One person going through the isolation is more than enough. If I had understood all of this (impossible, by the way), it never would have happened.
One is going to want to find allies, people that acknowledge the truth, admit it (everybody already knows the truth, really), and strive to make it part of The Great Narrative and it better be allies from both genders.
I was going to put the following in Explanations but I think it fits just as well here.
Loving Coitus is more like riding a bike than the other three examples that I usually use. Walking, talking, and writing are learned early in childhood.
Riding a bike is more of a consciously sentient act of working the muscles in a way that takes advanced training. There are more complex ones like skateboarding, etc, but bike riding will do. I would use something later in life but I can't think of any that are common to the majority or takes more of the particular type of training that is required for men to succeed at Loving Coitus.
Loving Coitus, like bike riding and everything else we do, seems difficult before it is attempted. Like everything we do, we become amazed at how simple it really is.
I guess there is one special case that is closer. But, it is not common. I was driven to it. Part of the issue with controlling those muscles is the special case of the erotic sensations, which are really nothing more than a ticklish sensation. It's just that the tickle is attached to muscles that squeeze the gland in the crotch.
While I don't want to emphasize it. It is all of the control of the muscles in the crotch, as well as comprehension of the effect of twerking, and the erotic sensations that need to be mastered. But, it is a special case.
The tickling sensation can be controlled, also. I inadvertently learned that the hard way in my youth because of a cruel, vicious older sister that loved to tickle beyond the point of pain. I turned off the ticklish sensation, so that I wouldn't react. It is similar to the idea that is always suggested for coitus. Think about baseball. That is essentially what is happening but it's not as willy-nilly as thinking about baseball while attempting to create love. (i don't want to use "make love" in order to make the crucial point with the distinction)
It is the true mastery that a sentient race can attain.
Right now, most, if not all men (both genders, actually), are totally unprepared for the failure that happens at puberty. Many run from it at breakneck speed, many just never ever talk about it but 'grin and bear it' (another phrase I despise as prehuman that will never to be uttered by a true Human), others go to great lengths to indulge it in whatever other ways remain available.
In my youth, no adult was going to mention the fiasco to the young, so youth continued to go into puberty expecting so much more. Actually, I think we have turned that corner since I was young. Not that any adult is going to mention it. It is because the youth nowadays can sense the gender debacle, even if they do not understand it. Nowadays, for most, coitus is already suspect, though no one will ever admit it. Instead, they all just fight about it. Our sentience continues to seep through without any firm bearing on the subject yet. What a disaster.
We have become so advanced that we finally sense the basic problem with coitus before or as we attain puberty. That is a bad thing because we sense nothing but the animal's take on the situation. The dual urges to seek mutual ecstasy and procreate both remain, while the latter becomes more and more suspect because the act that makes it happen fails to fulfill the former. We are beginning to indulge the madness, perforce. We are too far advanced to accept the foolish fear-induced fairy tales but still just as blinded as we have ever been.
It sucks. Especially when we do not even accept the obvious conclusion that coitus can and must change into a Human, sentient, loving act. We just look away from the issue that turns our existence as a sentient, fully aware race upside down.
The argument just becomes more mad, as long as we don't open up about the situation.
It is the source of our madness.
So, I think that brings you up to date. If you are waiting with bated breath for the next timeline-dated post to appear at the top of the pile, cut it out. In fact, I think I'm done with this site. The other two less obvious sites I may continue to work on.