Addendum
I keep trying to find some way to say it concisely, succinctly, and clearly. As I've said elsewhere, only a Human without all of the baggage would be able to understand in less than 300 characters. For Humans, it will be simple: Coitus is a consistently loving act for a sentient race. In the meantime, let me try this.
Men have been selling themselves short since day one. No one believes that the male gender, as a whole, can make coitus a loving event and, because they have been given the excuse, there are plenty that don't even bother to try. They have been under-estimating and under-rating themselves. They have not accepted that coitus requires a Human finish to it. We aren't Human until humanity makes coitus Human.
Because of that unwelcome realization (that they have avoided admitting openly), they have developed an inferiority complex. Because of the inferiority complex, they take it out, especially, on women in the form of misogyny and worse. Even in mainstream society, the micro-aggressions, which are a form of misogyny, cannot be ignored. Men also take it out on the rest of humanity seeking the feeling of superiority to counter the underlying feelings of un-deservedness. It is a chip on their shoulder that they could easily brush off, if they would only raise their heads and take a hard look. Coitus has been waiting for a sentient race to make it something more. We are aware. That is the defining difference that means we can make coitus a Human, Sentient, Loving, fulfilling event that makes a couple more than two rutting animals.
Men have never gained their own self-respect. They have never learned to respect themselves. Women came with their self-respect in tact from day one. Women's self-respect only suffers from men's desire to recover what they have never allowed themselves to gain, their own self-respect. They try to blame it on women. But, they know better. That is what InCel is all about. Men attempting to justify their failure, like a cornered, insane animal. They are sentient, also, so somewhere deep in their minds, they realize the problem, whether they like it or not, whether they are yet willing to admit it or not.
I just hope this wraps it up in a nice neat bow for you.
Extrapolation
I am afraid that, for all that I've written about it, no one is yet extrapolating the real situation.
The derangement due to the unfinished state of coitus affects everything. The derangement of the race, the battle of the genders, is the dystopia. Most of all, it affects every act of the male gender to some extent. In many cases, it affects it to a great, disastrous extent.
I don't want to get into details because, if you can't figure them out for yourself, you will never believe it. The only further suggestion I can offer is that a lot of the monstrous behaviour happening today has a long history that reaches back three millennia. It won't change overnight but it will change rapidly, once we gain that which makes men's sentience free of the animal, free to respect itself.
Recap
The most germane points regarding becoming truly Human are the missing 90% of the brain becoming available; 100% of the brain being less distracted; 100% of the roadblocks to thinking eliminated; emotional maturity and self-respect remaining in tact for a lifetime for the vast majority of Humanity; nothing to detract from the noble qualities becoming fulfilled; relationships that maintain the potential to last a lifetime; love like we have never experienced it before - both in relationships as well as the general case. To sum it up, clarity. Do I really need to add that it won't happen overnight? We have a lot of bad, messy baggage to be shed.
The big three are self-respect, clarity, and love.
Misinterpretations
Maybe the worst misinterpretations of what I have been detailing is if anyone gets the feeling that every man will have to engage in coitus regularly for Humanity to become sane.
This is the difficulty I have faced all along without any rational feedback.
It all comes down to the male gender understanding that, if any particular man gains the wonderful grace of a woman to the extent that she is willing to engage in coitus, he will not have to fear confronting his failure to make Loving Coitus. That will change the existence of Humanity.
